Category Archives: Infidelity

With a micro camera films and unmasks her husband who tries to poison her

svegliaspiaShe searches online a micro camera hidden in an alarm clock, purchases it, puts it in the kitchen and films everything. The husband takes a little bottle, unscrews  it and with the dropper he puts the hydrochloric acid in the water bottle of his wife. The spy-alarm clock also equipped with audio reveals the man’s words: “So you die”. But the woman has acted with cunning and just with that bug unmasked him. She became suspicious by a sip of water a few days before that it had burned her mouth and a container of acid found in the medicine cabinet, she has decided to become a detective to protect herself.

Fearless and brave, before accusing the spouse, she wanted to clarify what was going on at home. She asked for advice to some relatives who have suggest to her to purchase a tiny camera and place it near to her water bottle in order to control what was happening. So she found out the sad truth. Her husband wanted to kill her. At that point she hadn’t mercy, she collected the evidences and told to the police everything.

The next day Eliseo Bongiorno, 67, uncensored, retired carpenter, was taken from his home and was taken to jail on charges of attempted murder, aggravated by binding to the victim and by the use of a poisonous substance. He immediately admitted his guilt, adding that he didn’t intend to kill her. “I just wanted to make her feel a bit ‘wrong, so she stopped to organize pilgrimages to Padre Pio and listen to Radio Maria all day”. His defender is looking for an alternative to prison, but certainly the retiree can’t return to his home.

In this history there are all the elements for an Agatha Christie’s story: the plan of the husband, the poison, the suspicion of the wife, the son who still lives at home with them (the other is a priest) and the homemade surveys with the purchase of a spy alarm clock, a device normal to the appearance, but that hides an audio and video recorder.

How often happens the best way to protect themselves is the “do-it-yourself”. Fortunately tools for controlling and monitoring are easily available on the site www.endoacustica.com and ensure maximum efficiency in small size and therefore are easily concealable.

Catching a cheating wife? Never been easier, with a spy phone

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Let’s face it: we all get there sooner or later, like it or not. During the course of a lifetime and of a relationship, the time may come when you start doubting your wife’s trustworthiness, and ask yourself the age-old question that no one wants to ask himself: “Is she cheating on me?”.

A reader tells: “In my specific case, this didn’t happen yet, but it may just come down to two reasons: I’m single, and my previous girlfriend may have outsmarted me (and most likely they did, in most fields… but this is another story ).

But unfortunately, it may be happening to my good old friend J, and I got to know it a few months ago when, over a couple of beers, he confessed that, after noticing a few potential signs of infidelity, he bought a new “present” for his girlfriend: a spyphone.

Now, being some kind of a geek, I have a rough idea of what mobile phone tapping is, and I occasionally have heard and read about such kind of cell phone spy gear, but I never got too much involved with phone surveillance and all that goes with it.

So, I started to get interested not only in my friend’s heartaches, but also in some juicy technical details… you never know, it might turn out useful some day!

Basically, what my friend bought for his supposedly cheating girlfriend is just a standard cellphone, with an extra hidden feature: an embedded cell phone spyware, which allows a third party to perform a real spy monitoring on the subject’s activities, by relaying phone conversations to a so called “master phone number”, that is, the number from which this spy software can be controlled.

This remote spying software is discreetly installed into the phone and is completely invisible, and would notify the master phone by SMS when the target is engaged in a conversation. At this point, with a phone call, you can join the conversation and secretly listen to what the cheating spouse is saying.

It can also send you copies of all SMS messages, both incoming and outgoing, and can be programmed remotely, so you would not have to be near your unfaithful girlfriend to set it up… in short, this software allows you to spy on a cell phone by SMS!

So if you always wondered how to read someone’s text messages without being noticed, with such a tool you would just have to sit back and wait for her messages to come straight to your phone… perfect if you want to find out if your wife is cheating, but are too lazy to do it!

And on top of all these interesting functions, this remote spy software can allow your normal cell phone to spy on the target, even while it is turned off! And when your cheating girlfriend thinks that she is safe because the phone is off, that’s exactly when this spy phone would provide the best performance, listening to any conversation around it and acting like a real bug.

I will not share details of how J’s story ended, but what I can say is that my friend feels much more relieved now, as he has a faithful spy tool that allows him to sleep safe and sound at night.

Jealousy, beginning or end of a relationship?

gelosiaJealousy is present in man just as in women, the difference lies in the approach. Women feel betrayed by the emotional point of view as a matter of trust, and the man cannot bear to have a rival from the physical point of view. Every day there are numerous people who buy spy phones with which to monitor calls, text messages sent and received by the partner, but also always know where he is and with who he is by relating. Most of the time these devices are bought by people who already have suspicious about the conduct of the partner and it isn’t uncommon that these will prove founded.

Some people say it’s just a form of selfishness and possessiveness, others say that without it one can’t speak of true love. Jealousy has always created differing opinions and from these derive destinies opposites: one is the strengthening of the relation, the other is its progressive collapse.

The term “jealousy” comes from the greek and it means ardor and rivalry, in its seems to convey an aggressive passionality and a series of behaviors aimed at safeguarding the couple. The jealous has in fact a strong protective instinct for the couple. Faced with specific attitudes from “external” for the partner, peeved, acts quickly in favor of the union. Sometimes with irony, sometimes more aggressively, he points out his jealousy defended by the enemy. In contrast, the partner may react feeling the passion and remaining fascinated, or be annoyed.

To arouse discomfort are especially excessive behaviors. They are the jealous who fail to argue in front of mere suspicions. They close to dialogue raise their voices, threat to end the story and sometimes react with verbal violence, but also with physical one. Episodes that mark the couple indissolubly. In this case, the problem lies in the lack of confidence and fear of abandonment. This may be an affective illness of childhood.

Only by addressing positively their emotions, they can help the couple’s relationship. Irony and seduction can be two secret weapons to control the emotion. The obsession certainly don’t lead very far and places first self-love and not that of the couple, as is believed. There are those who resort to psychotherapy.

Who undergoes jealousy should try to don’t react abruptly, but to put the partner in a position to fully express his state of mind, trying to don’t trivialize and limiting attitudes too seductive with the supposed rivals.

The voice, indicator of betrayal

uomo-al-telefono_600x398Infidelity is widespread and steadily increasing. Almost one in two people confesses to having an affair. Not very credible are those people who claim that they haven’t noticed anything, something in the couple doesn’t usually go, regardless of the betrayal itself. There are always some clues, unusual attitudes, evidences. For example, men believe that women with the voice too shrill are less reliable, while the women are convinced that men with a deep tone of voice are less faithful.

On the theme of “voice”, as a source of paralinguistic informations, is expressed the Canadian McMaster University. In particular, the researchers have examined the relationship between the tone of voice and the perceived infidelity. According to experts, just hidden in the tonality are the mechanisms that lead to the choice of their partner. In fact, each person has benchmarks and obviously try to don’t engage in stories not very convincing already “at first listen”.

The study involved listening to some voices by a group of volunteers. The result is that both men and women use the tone of voice as a sign of future betrayal. In particular, believe that they are inclined to betray women with a high tone and men with a deep tonality.

The case is scientifically tested: men with low voice have high levels of testosterone, while women with shrill voice have a high rate of estrogen. As often happens behind a social case lies a scientific truth. The voice is often used to seduce and conquer their prey via telephone. Often are used voice changers both to hide their identity from the interlocutor and to make it perfect on the phone. In short, the charm also passes through the intricate telephone networks.